The Authentic Lane Blog!

Hi, I’m Elaine.

I like helping people to tap into their best qualities and to recognize and encourage them in others. I’ve spent a lifetime learning how to be happy by living authentically. Being true to ourselves and open and honest with others can be daunting, but it’s so worth it. It’s something that can be learned over time, one concept at a time.

As a lifelong reader and curious observer, for me being authentic often means going a little deeper to get to the heart of the matter. In my posts, I’ll be offering a sincere and thoughtful exploration into the most intimate and emotionally satisfying aspects of personal growth. I’ll also make suggestions, based on my own experiences, about how you can look within and discover who you truly are, with the goal of helping you to create a more fulfilling life for yourself.

If you’re ready to get started, read on!

Posts tagged rejection

The Power of a Smile

If we set an intention to address relationship issues with a bit of humor, we’re more likely to be effective. Smiles beget smiles, brightening not only our moods, but the moods of those around us.

Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiJuly 9, 2025smile, relationships, joy, venting, frustration, communication, friction, love, rejection, affection, companionship, teasing, stress, behavior, personality, grief, loss Comments

Reframing Failure

For most people, the path to progress is full of fits and starts. We have to allow room for experimentation with the knowledge that not everything will work out. Failure can be a stepping stone to success.

Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiApril 30, 2025failure, fail, feelings, optimism, pessimism, stepping stone, overwhelm, rejection, progress, Claudia Luiz, Amy MorinComment

The Benefits of Conversing with Strangers

We tend not to place a lot of importance on brief social interactions, but studies show that friendly encounters with strangers can actually improve our mental health, making us feel more happy and optimistic.

Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiAugust 31, 2023strangers, connection, conversation, introvert, well-being, interactions, social skills, stranger danger, fear, rejection, happiness, optimism Comments

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