THE AUTHENTIC LANE—Exploring Our Relationships. Discovering Ourselves.
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THE AUTHENTIC LANE—Exploring Our Relationships. Discovering Ourselves.
Exploring Our Relationships. Discovering Ourselves.

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The Authentic Lane Blog!

Hi, I’m Elaine.

I like helping people to tap into their best qualities and to recognize and encourage them in others. I’ve spent a lifetime learning how to be happy by living authentically. Being true to ourselves and open and honest with others can be daunting, but it’s so worth it. It’s something that can be learned over time, one concept at a time.

As a lifelong reader and curious observer, for me being authentic often means going a little deeper to get to the heart of the matter. In my posts, I’ll be offering a sincere and thoughtful exploration into the most intimate and emotionally satisfying aspects of personal growth. I’ll also make suggestions, based on my own experiences, about how you can look within and discover who you truly are, with the goal of helping you to create a more fulfilling life for yourself.

If you’re ready to get started, read on!

Photo by Jennifer Robertson

Photo by Jennifer Robertson

The Love of Friends
The Love of Friends

When we think about the people we love the most, we often think about our family members, yet the love of friends is also central to our well-being.

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Elaine KlonickiDecember 19, 2024 Comments
Grateful For You
Grateful For You

Personal growth is central to every stage of our lives. As much as we’ve learned, we know we have more work to do in terms of our self-awareness. I’m grateful we’re on this journey together.

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Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiNovember 22, 2024gratitude, thanks, Thanksgiving, psychology, optimism, growth, mental health, anxiety, depression, balance Comments
Buoys of Joy
Buoys of Joy

When life is hard, it can help to look beyond ourselves—to widen our view and focus on some future point. Keeping joyful activities on the horizon can get us through tough times.

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Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiOctober 27, 2024joy, focus, celebrate, family, reunions, buoys of joy, depression, struggle, horizon, overwhelm, hopelessComment
Be Your Own Healthcare Advocate
Be Your Own Healthcare Advocate

Rather than being a passive recipient of healthcare services, to get the best results, it’s important to be proactive. Do your research, take meticulous notes, and communicate effectively with your providers.

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Elaine KlonickiSeptember 26, 2024 Comments
Embracing Our Differences
Embracing Our Differences

The world would not be as interesting if we were all cut from the same cloth. If we allow ourselves to be openminded when we travel, the exposure to new and interesting ways of living can enrich us.

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Elaine KlonickiSeptember 11, 2024 Comments
Understanding the Need to Please
Understanding the Need to Please

When we find ourselves giving inauthentic praise and compliments, and saying yes when we really mean no, our confusing response may be a reflexive coping mechanism called fawning.

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Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiAugust 14, 2024fawning, people pleasing, fight, flight, freeze, trauma, Pete Walker, guilt, regret, personality, praise, narcissism, triggers, boundaries, unworthiness, habits Comments
Taking a Creative Pause
Taking a Creative Pause

When we’re emotionally overwhelmed, it’s important to give ourselves grace and take the time we need to do self-care to restore our equilibrium. Movies like Inside Out 2 help us understand the contributions of each of our emotions to our well-being.

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Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiJuly 31, 2024rest, renewal, replenish, caregiving, creativity, challenges, emotions, feelings, self-care, Inside Out 2, thoughts, behaviors, puberty, conflict, brain, graceComment
Changing Our Relationship with Worry
Changing Our Relationship with Worry

Chronic worry can limit our ability to fully enjoy our lives. But with practice, we can challenge our false beliefs about the power of our exaggerated thoughts. Humor can also help us relax.

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Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiJune 2, 2024worry, anxiety, stress, humor, laughter, The Worry Trick, concern, expectations, danger, compassion, fears, beliefs, disappointments Comments
Letting Go
Letting Go

As parents, we’re proud of our kids at every stage and we look forward to their next steps. Letting go is hard, but it’s important for us to learn to trust them as they make their way in the world.

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Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiMay 16, 2024letting go, trust, parenting, grandparenting, adult children, adult development Comments
When Life is Hard, Learn to Play the Long Game
When Life is Hard, Learn to Play the Long Game

It’s much easier to make short-run decisions than long-run ones, especially when we are stressed. But with patience and imagination, we can learn to play the long game, which yields greater rewards in the future.

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Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiMay 3, 2024commitment, long game, trust, relationships, parenting, perspecitive, maturity, gratification, challenges, determination, courage, outcomes, skills, decisions Comments
Inquiring About Each Other's Pasts
Inquiring About Each Other's Pasts

No matter how well we think we know a person, we can’t know everything that has happened to them. It can be fun and rewarding to learn more. Sometimes, all it takes is for us to ask.

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Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiApril 17, 2024stories, history, past, family, reinventing ourselves, memoir, memories, childhood, jobs, careers, team, Holderness Family, David Brooks, connection, intimacy, small talk, deep relationships, heart Comments
Joining Other People’s Worlds
Joining Other People’s Worlds

If we stay openminded and openhearted, we can learn a lot from others, especially those who are very different from us. Becoming curious is the key to making this happen.

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Posts by ElaineElaine KlonickiApril 3, 2024delusions, compassion, psychology, behaviors, mental health, irrational thinking, dementia, geriatric, disturbed thinking, stigma, illness, health, psychosis, optimism, dreams, reality, encouragement, curiosity Comments
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